Well, the hectic trip was "hecticker" than I imagined it would be. We made it to DS's wedding and met his bride's family. They seem to be really nice folks. Almost all of the older men at the wedding were US military veterans, from both sides of the family.
My parents were not able to make it to the wedding. I was warned that my mother has symptoms of dementia, but when we flew to VA to see them, I found out the brutal truth of the situation. My mom remembered me, but she kept asking my wife who she is. It is really quite sad, but my father is coping with it well. Luckily, they are well-set financially for their retirement, so his only worries are taking care of my mom.
DD2 and her hubby (SIL2) have closed on their house. They haven't moved in yet as they are having a lot of work done before they move in. They are replacing all of the floors and painting. I suggested they replace the windows and put in more attic insulation, but instead they are doing the cosmetic changes.
I helped SIL2 put in some purlins in the attic (like there would be purlins anywhere else). I left my nailer and compressor at his place and showed him how to determine if a wall is load-bearing. I also showed him how to brace back to a load-bearing wall for the additional purlins he's going to have to put in. DW is working with DD2 this weekend to help her paint the inside.
Their contractor has finally given them prices for some of the interior changes. His prices are in line with the amount of work to be done. In addition to our house-warming gift of $2K, we're making them a substantial "Bank of mom and pop" loan as well. We're making them sign some papers, but that's more so that everyone knows the terms than for any legal purpose. I seriously doubt that we'll do any legal action if they don't pay us back. Of course, I'm sure they will pay us back, else I wouldn't have approved of the loan.
I spent the remainder of my time doing repairs on the house DW will be staying in. She insisted on a new Tahoe, and I made her get the LTZ model. If you're going to have a new car, you might as well get a good one. We financed it with our CU, who offered 1.49%, but after negotiating the deal, the dealership asked what our interest rate was. He said he could beat it, and therefore our rate is actually at 1.19% through Capital One. That's not a bad rate, in my book. DW should have it paid off in about 1.5 years by the amortization schedule we worked out.
Homes in my neighborhood have fully rebounded from the "soft" hit they took during the downturn. Empty lots are going for exorbitant levels. The house beside ours is listed for $1250 per month as a lease, and it is significantly smaller and less well-kept than ours. Rental estimates for our place are about $2K. I have considered selling it, but every time I look at its value, it has gone up yet again. Right now, it has increased by over $60K in less than a year. Although those are unrealized gains, there's no way I'm going to sell until that pace of increase abates.
So, now we have a car payment again. I can't say I'm happy about that, but at least DW has a safe car to drive in. This trip also put our house payoff schedule back a few months. It looks like we won't have it fully paid off until the first quarter of 2014 now. Oh, well, the best laid schemes of mice and men oft go awry, as the Burns poem states.
I'll be back at work in the morning, and have already received about 10 phone calls about minor issues that needed my input. I guess I'll need to get back into office-work mode this evening. I won't be taking any more time off for at least 6 months.
Ramadan started this month. "Ramdan Kareem!" to those of you who follow the tenets of Islam.
Back in Dubai
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July 13th, 2013 at 08:18 pm 1373743127
Chuckling a bit about the "kids" choice to do the cosmetic changes instead of improving the "infrastructure" of the house ... Don't worry, they'll learn.
July 13th, 2013 at 08:41 pm 1373744487
I've learned that not having the dogs around any more means that I have to pick up any food that I drop now. Before, I don't think it even actually hit the floor before the four-legged vacuum cleaners devoured it. They're both really loving the cooler weather in south Texas, too. Imagine calling 104 degrees (40 deg C) "cooler."
July 13th, 2013 at 09:18 pm 1373746709
And what the heck is a purlin, anyway?
July 13th, 2013 at 09:32 pm 1373747544
A purlin is a roof support that attaches between a structural wall (load-bearing is the common term) and a roof rafter. These prevent both sagging and collapse along long runs. The house they purchased is lacking about 20 braces for their purlins. I would have been more accurate to state that I showed him how to put in the purlin braces. Here's a link that shows them: http://www.ashireporter.org/photos/thumbnails/2010_04/Word-1...
July 14th, 2013 at 07:47 pm 1373827664
I hear you about the food on floors ... Our dog passed in Feb and it's still a bit of a shock to find food crumbs when cleaning along the baseboards in the kitchen.